The outdoor area for the ceremony.
Guide to a Jewish Wedding
The Ketubah (Marriage Contract)
Before the ceremony, the bride and groom sign the ketubah, a Jewish marriage contract, outlining the couple’s commitments and responsibilities to each other. In addition to its Jewish legal significance, it is also a work of art: you can see it on display at the reception.
The Chuppah (Wedding Canopy)
The chuppah, an open sided canopy supported by four posts, symbolizes the home Elaine and Travis will build together. It is open on all sides to represent hospitality and a reminder that their home is open to friends, family, and community.
Kiddushin (Wine)
In Judaism, wine symbolizes joy and celebration. After Bill recites the Kiddush, or blessing over wine, the bride and groom will each share a sip from the cup to sanctify the ceremony.
Ring Ceremony
The bride and groom will exchange rings to represent their commitment to each other. The wedding bands, unadorned in accordance with Jewish tradition, symbolize a simple and unbroken union.
Sheva Brachot (Seven Blessings)
Blessings on the couple that place their union in a wider social and sacred context. These blessings center love, compassion, and the sanctity of life. The blessings will be read by Elaine and Travis' siblings and their partners.
The Breaking of the Glass
The groom will step on and shatter a glass to finalize the ceremony. The sound of the breaking glass is said to frighten away evil spirits who might spoil this joyous occasion with their mischief. It also warns us that love, like glass, is fragile and must be protected. The breaking of the glass also serves as a reminder of the destruction of the Second Temple in Jerusalem in 70 C.E. Even in a moment of such great joy, we are asked to remember that there is still pain and suffering in the world and that we have a responsibility to help relieve some of that suffering. When the groom breaks the glass, you can shout “Mazel Tov” to wish the couple congratulations and good luck!
Yichud (Seclusion)
After breaking the glass, the bride and groom will have a few minutes of private time together to share their first moments as a married couple.
The Hora at the Reception
No Jewish wedding is complete without the Hora, danced to “Hava Nagila!” In this tradition, the guests hoist the bride and groom above the crowd while friends and family dance in a circle.